The Holidays and The Order of Balance

Direct Experience with the Holidays and the Order of Balance:

All things are balanced over time. The Order of Balance is one of the three Orders of Love in Family Constellations. (Precedence and Inclusion are the other two Orders of Love.) The practice of giving and receiving a gift is an energetic opportunity to make deep soul contact with another.

The gift, with one soul offering and one soul receiving, is the bridge that helps honor and balance the relationship. The greatest gift you can give is to acknowledge the soul of the other: look him or her in the eye and say, “Thank you.” What you present to the recipient is secondary. Equally, when receiving, try taking the time to really look the other person in the eye, acknowledging his or her contribution to your life, and thank his or her soul. A sacred moment of balance will result between you.